Self-motivation
I've
been self-employeed my entire adult life. You can't make
that happen without understanding self-motivation. For
the next few weeks I'm going to explain some of the things
that I've learned about staying motivated and how it applies
to mastering guitar.
What
Makes Some Guitarists Special?
The primary difference between an average guitar player
and a great guitar player is motivation. A great guitar
player is obviously more motivated than the average
player. There are many factors that affect motivation.
Some are easy. For example, great guitarists have found
something so fascinating about guitar that practice
is almost effortless. What they've found may be as simple
as learning to enjoy the puzzle-like aspect of guitar
playing. If you've ever tried to copy a song note-for-note
you realize that it's actually a huge puzzle that needs
to be solved. Some people give up because they find
the process frustrating, others can't give up because
they find the puzzle fascinating. They're the lucky
ones.
As
I mentioned, this kind of motivation comes naturally
if it comes at all. The other type of motivation results
from self-discipline. I view self-discipline as simply
a promise we make to ourself and the ability to keep
that promise. This aspect of motivation is something
that we can control if we choose to. This process doesn't
need to be difficult.
Small
Goals Add Up To Huge Gains
It's important to realize that major goals are attained
by achieving several smaller goals. I'll give you an
example. I was recently discussing songwriting and performing
with Michael Angelo Batio. I commented that what
he does is impossible. The truth is, it would be impossible
to write and perform a song as complex as "Hands
Without Shadows" without a great deal of effort.
I said to Michael, "People have no idea of how
much time it takes to write something like that. They
think it's completed in a week or two." Michael
replied, "Three years. It took me three years to
write that." So, what appears to be impossible
can be achieved by patiently working toward a goal step-by-step.
"Genius
is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration."
- Thomas
Edison
You
must promise yourself that the overall goal will be
completed. In this example the goal is composing and
performing a song. This is achieved by promising yourself
to patiently work on the song a section at a time week
after week.
I
use this technique in The
Complete Basic Course. In three of the Stages
I divide songs and leads into four sections. I teach
each section as a weekly lesson. The end result of the
four week step-by-step process is that you have learned
the complete lead. The trick is to break things down
into manageable sections and promise yourself to complete
each of the manageable sections. Just make small, easy
to keep promises to yourself.
The
problem most people experience with "promises that
we make to ourself" is, there's too much wiggle
room. You must be very specific about the plan of action
and not allow yourself to deviate from that plan.
Here's
an example. Let's say that the goal is to learn a complete
song in a week. First decide exactly what it will take
for you to achieve the goal. Put this in writing. It
could be as simple as, you need to work on the song
for forty-five minutes every day for the next week.
Think of this as the rule that you must follow for the
next week to achieve your goal. Do not allow yourself
to deviate from the rule one bit. That's the promise
you must make and keep to attain the goal.
You
must act as if there is nothing more important than
sticking to your plan for the week. It's more important
than getting together with friends. It's more important
than having fun. It's more important than most other
obligations in your life. So when other things "come
up" act like this goal is truly important. Make
it a priority.
You
must accomplish these goals to believe that you can
accomplish future goals. Success breeds success.
This
article was inspired by a conversation on our forum:
What
do you guys do when you're feeling lost?
Series
Continued: Part 2
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